Why Do I Lose Enthusiasm for My Desires?

From Ask Lorna! Answers to Your Frequently Asked Questions on Law of Attraction,
A regular column by Lorna, Jan 25, 2006         

Question: I am working on a very important project, that would change my life, but things are not working out as I would like. I start my energy work and after a while, just when I am gaining momentum, something happens, and I get demagnetized. And this has happened for three years running. I have manifested other, less important, things, but not the one I care for more. Any idea what I can do to unblock the situation?

Answer: Boredom or "becoming demagnetized" as you put it, comes when we are 'thinking about' our desires more than we are FEELING the fulfillment of our desires. When we get caught up in using the intellect to manifest, we get boggled down in thoughts like, "What if it doesn't come?", "Suppose I get it and I don't want it?", or the dreaded "How will I pay for it?" We think we are thinking about having it, but really we are worrying about what might go wrong in the having of it. These aren't thoughts we want to keep having, so, of course, we stop thinking them. We weren't really thinking about our desires anyway, but we feel we've let ourselves down by abandoning the unpleasant thought stream.

I would ask you are you feeling the joy of having it? Really feeling it? If you are anticipating with joy having your wants manifested, there can be no despair. Not 'thinking about' having it, and not fighting the logical part of your mind that says this can't happen, but are you living in the joy of being it? True, and easy, manifesting is done by seeing yourself already having your desire fulfilled. You want your desire because you think it will give you more joy. So create the joy of having it, not the 'difficulty' of having it.

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Are you seeing yourself with it, living it or it is outside of you? See yourself doing, having, being, experiencing the thing you want. See your friends and family being happy for you. See that it is easily paid for, if that could be an issue. See yourself comfortable with it - having it o being it. This is your dream; make it as joy-filled as you can imagine.

You say this thing could change your life. Maybe you have some apprehension about changing your life, some fear, hesitancy, reluctance, doubt?

If so, work thru these and come back to feeling the joy of it. Then write about it, sing about it, talk to yourself out loud (in the shower or in the car - alone), and act as if you have it. Always return to feeling the joy of having it.

You always get what you are in harmony with, so if it hasn't come, you are not yet in harmony with your desire.

Lorna maintains an international Law of Attraction Coaching practice. From time to time she has openings for new clients. If you would like some help in consciously using the law of attraction in your life with ease, visit her website: http://www.transform-u.com.